Thursday, January 5, 2012

Day 4 of "30 Things to Stop Doing to Yourself"


#4 Stop putting your own needs on the back burner.The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too.  Yes, help others; but help yourself too.  If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now. WOW... Really!? Number four so far is the most difficult for me. Not only in my most recent relationship, but in everything I do! My dreams, my passions, my wants, my needs have always been placed on the back burner for whomever and whatever. Everyone's wants and needs always come before me/mine. I do it in relationships, with my children, my friends and family. ALL the time, it's always about everyone else not about me. It's my nature I love to make people happy. To spoil them, and when possible go over the top. Haha I call it OCD... other people call it stupid ;) Maybe the solution is finding a happy medium. A middle of the road so to say. This is going to be tough but I'm gonna have to try... Remember this year it's all about ME :)

 "If I put you first and you put me first, no one will ever be second." ~ Lisa Meyer 

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