"Sometimes you have to stand alone to prove that you can still stand."
Stop getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. – Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen – in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
Not so much that I am bad at getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons. My biggest problem is once I have figured out it is wrong, I don't leave! Why? What makes me stick around for so long? So goes the story of my past two relationships, totaling twenty five years of my life?
Drum roll please... I was afraid of being ALONE! Funny thing is once I decided it's ok to be alone, I will survive, I can stand up by myself and be happy!
I am surviving, I am happy LOL and I am not the slightest bit alone! I have me, my family and my friends that have been right there beside me always!!! And when I least expected it, it seems like maybe the right person may have walked through the door. Only time will tell. It's not a race, there is no clock ticking away at the final moments. There is no rush!
One thing that has helped me get through all the pain over the past three years (besides the support and love from my family and friends) is my favorite quote, “Everything happens for a reason. Every action has a reaction. Always remember that whats meant to be will always find a way to come about.” This quote has got me through many a days and nights... kept me from finding that final edge. And I am really excited about what the future may bring with the potential possibilities and just plain having fun! If it's meant to be the love part will just happen naturally.
"Being single isn't bad. What is bad is giving up hope on finding that someone special!"
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